Feng Shui for love
Discover your personal g-spot.
So you’ve been looking for Love. Tried “Plenty of Fish” and dated a few frogs. You’ve even had a friend say, “try Feng Shui. Place a statue of a couple beside your bed. The Feng Shui books say it works.” Like magic you expected prince charming to ring your bell. Disappointed you quickly realized all you got was a friend with benefits. It all may have been good for a short time but what you’re really looking for is staying power. A commitment to go the distance, someone you can dance in and out of the groove with. Who whispers “To Know You is To Love You” as they hold you gently as you come back to earth.
It’s ok to want those “Sky rockets in flight, afternoon delight”, moments. “Rock me gently, rock me softly kind-a nights that take you to infinity and beyond.” Yah, yah I know too many radio/movie metaphors. But really? That’s where we get all those day-dreaming ideas like the Note Book and Harry Met Sally. We’ll all” have what she’s having” without all the drama.
You’ve been looking in the wrong place, the answers aren’t on Google and match.com they’re right underneath your own roof. Yes, that’s right. I’m talking Feng Shui. Don’t role your eyes Feng Shui isn’t all about the woo woo and voodoo. You’re not sticking pins in your dancing couple, only picking a windowsill to light 3 candles on and say “With this flame I call forth my twin-flame in mind, body and spirit. May you see my light, recognize my heart and come home to my open heart for Love Lives Here Now.” It’s not an incantation it’s an affirmation. So get over it.
Feng Shui for relationship is really about getting to know yourself first and for most so that you don’t continue to attract Mr. Wrong. I said Mr. Wrong not Mr. Wong. Feng Shui isn’t just a Chinese delicacy. Your home is a mirror that shows all your not so secrets. Your home speaks volumes without even uttering a word. Sometimes getting to know yourself is uncomfortable and where you have to peek isn’t always pretty and rather awkward but the result in knowing how you tick makes a most honest dialogue. It’s easy to know what we don’t like, we’re wired to share all the drama with our friends and cry when we keep slamming our hearts in the door. God forbid we share all the peace, love and grooviness in our lives. That would be bragging and be most unattractive. Hello! That would be creating more peace, love and grooviness in our lives. Our vulnerability is our greatest strength. Before you know it you’ll be sharing the same heartbeat with Mr. Right. So share the love! We want to do the dance, but are afraid of the intimacy that goes with the tickling of feathers.
Reading a few Feng Shui books you attempt to activate the relationship gua of your home. Gua what? Gua means single g-spot. Your home has 9 and each one is hyper sensitive to releasing environmental endorphins to attract the love you desire. Yes, I said 9! Nine ways to take your pulse from 0 – 160 in a heartbeat. Much like your body, your home has many erogenous zones all wired to fire at the same time when you know how to massage the details to get the maximum results. I’m not just talking sex, I’m talking real soul-mating, twin flame kind-a-love thing that makes love magical.
Feng Shui is all about bringing heaven to earth, the perfect match making quantum connection. You don’t really just want that physical attraction kind of fling. You want that organic soul connection out of this world love that transcends time and space. Feng Shui can help bring love home.
When you create a home of love, love can’t help but respond to the resonance of the vibe. You need to live in the now, let go of every loathful self-talk, thoughts, belief systems, items, pictures, objects, and journals that no-longer tell the story of who you are today. Yes, those old chapters have contributed to your story but everyone gets tired of reruns. You’ve written the book. You don’t need the Cold notes to remember the details. You get the credits for your contribution. If you’re still holding onto the old edition, maybe there’s something you’ve yet to learn from the experience. If not and you’re ready to let go and take a magic carpet ride with Mr. Right you best activate all your g-spots by adding romantic touches to stimulate all your five senses to the right-hand corner of every room in your home. Like holding hands, palm up, open to receive. Pace yourself. Floor play is half the fun.
